U.S. ice dancers keep it in the family
By Kelly Whiteside, USA TODAY // December 22, 2005
NEW YORK — As U.S. ice dancer Denis Petukhov sat next
to his mother, Luba, who was just a few feet away from
the ice rink at Rockefeller Center, the 30,000 lights
on the 74-foot-tall Christmas tree seemed dim in
comparison to her smile.
When he had asked his mother, who
lives in Kirov, Russia, what she wanted to do on her
first trip to the USA, a visit here was at the top of
her list. She would have liked to have skated around the
dinky rink, teeming with tourists on a recent Saturday
afternoon, but there was a small problem. "She doesn't
skate," her son said with a laugh.
Petukhov and his wife, Melissa
Gregory, two-time U.S. silver medalists who live and
train in Connecticut, are considered locks for one of
the USA's three ice dancing spots for February's Winter
Olympics in Torino. The team will be determined at next
month's U.S. championships in St. Louis.
After being denied a tourist visa
for five years — in large part because Denis came to the
USA on a tourist visa and stayed — Luba's application
finally was accepted, probably because her son is now a
U.S. citizen. After Gregory and Petukhov finished fourth
in the Cup of Russia, Luba flew home with them earlier
this month.
"When she was sitting on the
plane, she was saying that she couldn't believe she was
coming. For all her life, she was dreaming to travel.
Now here, her dreams are coming true," Denis says.
The same also could be said for
Gregory, who grew up in Northbrook, Ill., and Petukhov.
Like one of those Russian nesting dolls, their
improbable story is nestled inside another improbable
story. What began as a match made in cyberspace turned
into much more.
The two had been top juniors in
their respective countries but struggled to find new
partners after their previous ones left competitive
skating. After nearly three years of searching, Gregory
set a deadline. She would leave her skating career
behind and enroll in college if she didn't find a
partner by Sept. 1, 2000.
About the same time, Petukhov
posted a message on the International Skating Union's
website on the partner search page. After a friend of
Gregory's mom spotted it, the two skaters exchanged
e-mails — businesslike missives about their skating
accomplishments and physical descriptions such as height
and weight. A tryout was arranged, and Petukhov flew
from Moscow to meet Gregory for the first time.
"He arrived on Aug. 31 at 11
p.m., and we started skating the next day. We knew
immediately," says Gregory, who found her partner quite
literally at the 11th hour.
Petukhov also had scheduled other
tryouts with prospective partners. However, after that
first day on the ice with Gregory, he canceled them and
never used his return ticket home.
Initially, they communicated in
what Gregory calls "broken Russian, broken English."
(They're both bilingual now.) Much of ice dancing is
about chemistry, which is what both felt from the start.
When they went to California that September to work with
a ballroom dance instructor, "that's when we fell in
love," Gregory says. "We had a lot in common, the same
interests, the same goals in life."
Gregory and Petukhov were engaged
that Christmas and married Feb. 2, 2001. This February,
Petukhov was sworn in as a U.S. citizen in Chicago.
It's citizenship that might keep
the USA's top ice dancing team of Tanith Belbin and Ben
Agosto from Torino. Belbin, a Canadian, is in the
process of becoming a U.S. citizen, but unless her
paperwork is expedited she probably will not become a
U.S. citizen in time.
If Belbin and Agosto are
ineligible for Torino, Gregory and Petukhov will be the
USA's best hope for a medal, which the USA hasn't won in
ice dancing since 1976, the first year the discipline
was included.
First, though, there's the
nationals. Luba will be there, of course, and then
return home to the modest apartment where she raised her
two children as a single parent on a secretary's salary.
In the meantime, she will get to
know her son's new country. At age 50, she is learning
to drive. When she walked into Wal-Mart for the first
time, her jaw dropped and her eyes widened.
"We could have left her there and
come back the next day," Gregory says.
Over lunch at Rockefeller Center,
Luba was asked what she's looking forward to the most
about the U.S. Championships. Her son translated the
question into Russian, listened to her answer and
smiled.
"She wants us to win," he said. |